[tri-wings] Re: Platitudes

> I can't even count the number of times I was told that I'm lucky that =
my
> girls died a month apart, so that I would only have to go through the=20
> grieving
> process once.


>>>>>>>>>>>But Nancy, I am floored by that comment.
Instead of being easier it must feel like you got hit by a runaway train =

that turned around and came back again.<<<<<<<<<<<


I am with Karen!  Just reading these posts about the hurtful things =
people
say has me in tears remembering the things that have been said to me.
Another thing that I find very hurtful is the #  of people that so cant =
deal
with her death that have cut me off completely!  I lost friends when =
Rebecca
was born, as they just couldn=92t deal with it, and I lost friends when =
she
died.  And the real kicker?  One of my cousins ( one of the ones I have =
seen
so seldom they felt they had to introduce themselves to me at Rebecca's
funeral) actually suggested we get together sometime in the summer, well =
you
know what if they didn=92t want to do that when my daughter was alive =
then I
don=92t want to do it now!  And Nancy I really feel for you losing 2 so =
close
together..........

Susan mom to Rebecca t18m 06/06/91 - 05/02/06 and Mark age 15 ADD/LD


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