[tri-wings] Paul

Paul,
I'm so sorry.  And it is so important that you do not blame  
yourself.  You and your wife did so much for Paula.  And sometimes,  
when someone is hurting as much as Paula was, she may not have wanted  
you to know.  She lost a lot in losing her two daughters, just as you  
have lost a lot in losing 2 granddaughters and their mother.  I'm so  
glad that you can now talk about your pain.   You know that we are  
always here.
                On Jun 27, 2008, at 11:22 PM, Paul Farmer wrote:
                Thank you guys for sharing your pain. I'm pretty numb,
                but know enough to realize that I've been blessed very
                much. Paula would have been 39 last Monday. She died
                a month ago today. . .
                Paula died alone in a hospital room and I didn't get to
                even hold her. I        didn't even know that she was seriously 
ill.

                Sorry, I'm just rambling. Thanks for being there.

                Paul Farmer

Hugs,
Sheila Helleson                 Minnesota Grandma to:
Hope (T-18 ^i^ 11-1-1) & Alison; Cadence and Bridge
Mom to Cheryl (& Denny);  Wade (& Charity)
Wife to Richard for 36 years

"Shared joy is double joy, and shared sorrow is half-sorrow."   
Swedish Proverb
Laughter and tears are the healing medicines of God.








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