[tri-wings] Re: Not quite a therapy question~Deanna

Deanna,
   Melissa was just writing on another list to the new moms about when you
first get the dx of having a t-13 baby it somehow becomes part of their
identity. Then after coming to terms with it and when they are born the
thought is not there and they are just your precious Angel. She too felt
very cheated by people skipping the congratulations part and right to the
sympathy cards. She told me, mom ... I didn't even get anything that said"
It's a Boy"- probably because that fell in to the congratulations catagory.
I felt terrible and went right out and got a cute "It's a Boy" Beannie baby.
The parents are really cheated out of the milestone of their birth. That is
so precious!
Melissa wanted to tell all the new moms on the list congratulations for
being chosen to be the mom of such a special baby. Kaden's has taught us
soooo much.
Mostly to love while we can.
Love,
LouAnn,
Mom to Melissa, in law to Trent,
Grammy to Maelin Ann,2 & Kaden James ^i^
9/04/02 Our precious Angel full T-13 w/Translocation
also mom to Mick,28 & TJ,14

----- Original Message -----
From: "Deanna Warpehoski" <warpehoski@xxxxxxx>

> Thank you Sue and LouAnn, I also wrote down alot at first.  It's actually
> all documented on Jessica's website, and even though

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