[tri-wings] Re: Not quite a therapy question~Deanna

 
 Deanna Warpehoski <warpehoski@xxxxxxx> wrote:

>>Does anybody else feel that the hardest grieving time is not right after 
the funeral but rather a few months out?<<

Most definately.Yes I was extremely upset at having to bury my boys and I did 
all I could do to help ease some of the tears(another story for another time if 
you want) on the days of the funerals but a few months on after that was 
definately heaps worse.With Gareth I figured it was because we hit the 
christmas holidays soon afterwards but it was just the same with Dominic....you 
aint alone sweetheart.In fact today(just two weeks shy of three years for 
Gareth) I'd say that the grief game gets harder not easier but ask me again 
tomorrow and I'll tell you different maybe.

 >>. 
Maybe this only applies to ones with a prenatal dx, because I know that 
absolute worst time was the initial dx. Let me know if I'm normal? (No 
Mandy, not by your standards!LOL)<<


Dont think its only the prenatal dxs...mine werent dx'd with anything in 
particular...and I will ignore that last remark LOL

BIG HUGS




Mandy,mum to Matthew 10,Charlotte 8 , Gareth (t18 ^i^ Nov 14th'99) Dominic 
(Cystic Hygroma ^i^ July 23rd '00) and soon to be mum of our "special little 
someone" (England UK)

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same wound" - Thomas Jefferson 


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