[tri-wings] Re: Not quite a therapy question~Deanna






On Tuesday, October 29, 2002 1:41 PM, lbieck@xxxxxxxxxx 
[SMTP:lbieck@xxxxxxxxxx] wrote:
>
>
> > Yes Deanna-
>   I totally agree with you. As we didn't spend live earthly time we held, 
hugged and kissed Kaden. As those memories get further it does get harder>


On Tuesday, October 29, 2002 1:47 PM, Sue Whitehead 
[SMTP:susan@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx] wrote:
> I totally agree with you here.  You are normal.  Although we are now 6 
years
> down that road and the bad days are certainly fewer, the worst time for 
me
> was a few months after losing Susanna.


Thank you Sue and LouAnn, I also wrote down alot at first.  It's actually 
all documented on Jessica's website, and even though the reader may get 
bored, there was no way I could eliminate any of it.  It does keep the 
memory fresh rereading it.  I laugh when the counter comes up on the pages, 
because I'm sure half to 3/4ths are my hits!

Thanks for letting me know I wasn't alone.  I do remember the first few 
days after she was born, and everybody come to the hospital saying they 
were sorry - I wasn't ready for "I'm sorry" then, I wanted to hear 
congratulations!  Now - I can deal with the I'm sorry's but to everyone 
else, it should be over!  The fun never ends at the Trisomy Fun Park does 
it?

lotsoflove
Deanna~~~
wife to Mike, Mom to Nicole 14, Jake 10 and Jessica (our precious T18 
angel) 5/04/02
Meet Jessica @ http://home.att.net/~warpehoski

                  Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows
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