[tri-wings] Re: Not quite a therapy question~Deanna

From: Mandy <baby2angels2000@xxxxxxxxx>
Date: Fri, 25 Oct 2002 12:25:45 -0700 (PDT)

 >>"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened"<<

>>>Not always an easy one to put into practice.huh?<<<


ya, and as the memories of the touch and the smell get farther and farther 
it gets harder and harder, that's when I have to pull out the pictures.

Does anybody else feel that the hardest grieving time is not right after 
the funeral but rather a few months out?  I was so thrilled with the fresh 
memories of her touch and seeing her alive, it was difficult to feel 
cheated at that time.  Now as time goes on I think it is more difficult. 
 Maybe this only applies to ones with a prenatal dx, because I know that 
absolute worst time was the initial dx.  Let me know if I'm normal?  (No 
Mandy, not by your standards!LOL)



lotsoflove
Deanna~~~
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