[tri-wings] Re: No secrets here!

>>> How do you know when the time is right to start again and try for
another? I am sorry that is so personal you don't need to answer. I am so
happy that you and your wife are expecting! I'm sure it comes with
nervousness but most of all something great and exciting to look forward
too. <<<

Missy,
I know you directed this question at Pete and Louisa but it has been one of
the main questions asked by people after losing a baby to trisomy.  Our baby
Louise was our second child and of course we always planned on 4 kids so she
was never going to be our last.  As for when to fall pregnant again it is a
really personal choice and to me I just could not contemplate stopping a
pregnancy so Jono was born 1 year and 1 week after Louise.  That means there
is almost a 4 year gap between Jennie and Jono to me it's a tad bit
much...........
Your next baby will never replace Nicole and you should never feel guilty
for wanting the family you always planned.

"Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get!"
Forrest Gump's mother.

"Don't worry about the world coming to an end today.  It's already tomorrow
in Australia"
Charles Schultz.

Tracey RN/CM <///><, Mum to Jennie 15, Louise T18 (in heaven July 2nd 1990),
Jono 11, Jesse 8, Jimmy the angel dog, Millie the magnificent (Dogus
Ecstaticus), Pippa the perfect (puppius perfecticus) and most grateful wife
to David my soulmate and best friend.
Bobs Farm, NSW, Australia
Homepage - www.geocities.com/cuddlefishtoo/index.html
Our God Reigns
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