> How do you know when the time is right to start again and try for another? I am > sorry that is so personal you don't need to answer. I know this is meant for Pete, but I'll take a swing at it too. For us, we started trying immediately simply because it took two years for Jessica to come. My age is also a factor, I'm not exactly a spring chicken anymore, but we haven't had much luck. :-( It's not a matter of replacing Jessica, we could never do that, she will always be our first child together, but for us the reality is, if we don't get "busy" it's not going to happen. Hope you find some peace. I think you'll just know when it is right, for each couple it is different. lotsoflove Deanna~~~ wife to Mike, mom to Nicole 14, Jake 10, and Jessica (our precious T18 angel) 5/04/02 meet Jessica @ http://home.att.net/~warpehoski (full t18) Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line