[tri-wings] Re: New to the group (preg mentioned)

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From: "Thomas, Brenda L." <blthomas@xxxxxxxx>



>  So, while I am THRILLED
> for her, and while it really didn't make any difference to me what I was
> having, it still gave me a little jolt when she called after her
ultrasound
> (at my request) and told me that she was expecting a little girl. ......
Boy have I had some guilt feelings lately about
> that.  <<<


Brenda,
This is all perfectly normal.  It has only been three weeks for you - don't
feel bad for the feelings that you have.  I was the same way, for some
reason anyone that was pregnant with a girl bothered me much more than the
boys did.  This is one of those things about grief that you can't control
and you shouldn't knock yourself for it.

lotsoflove
Deanna~~~.~
wife to Mike, mom to Nicole 15, Jake 11, and  Jessica 5/4/02 (our precious
angel -t18) and our special BIG little bundle arriving 10/23/03!!!
Coal Valley, IL USA
Meet Jessica @ http://home.att.net/~warpehoski


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