Nancy I am soooooo pleased to hear your news about India, and it doesnt detract from our news at all - we are always glad to have more kids in the trisomy funpark! I'm sad to hear about the circumstances in which little India finds herself with you, but I'm glad that you have her. I'm sure she will bring you lots of joy! I know what you mean about deciding what could be handed on of Analee's - I had the same problem with the stuff I bought for Connor. I decided that there were a few items that were definitely "his" and kept those - the rest went to friends, Matthew and the charity box for the preemies at the hospital. I hope you get the graveside stuff sorted out soon, I'm sure you will feel much more peaceful once its done. It must be difficult, but you will get there in the end. Any chance of seeing these pics then? I'd love to see your brood! Demi Mummy to ickle angel Connor Adam (T18 13.06.01) & Matthew McDermid (nearly 2) & Ziggy the daft border collie _________________________________________________________________ Match.com - Click Here To Find Singles In Your Area Today! http://msnuk.match.com/ Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line