Hi Maria, I think that losing a child at 17 weeks or 17 years, our heartache is much the same. We all have lost what we had hoped for and dreamed of for our children. I'm glad that you were able to reach out after losing your baby so recently. I hope that you are able to find some peace in the days ahead, knowing that your baby is now playing with all of ours, in heaven. Nancy, Mom to Tony (9), Ian (5), India (3), Logan (3), and Angels Sky (8-26-06), and Analee T-18 (7-4-06). **************Gas prices getting you down? Search AOL Autos for fuel-efficient used cars. (http://autos.aol.com/used?ncid=aolaut00050000000007) Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line