[tri-wings] Re: My granddaughter, Catherine Renee, born sleeping

Dear Erin,

     I am truly sorry to hear about your son.  What
did you name him? I'm finding out that Catherine has a
lot of playmates and I'd like to know their names. 
I'm so sorry for your and your families loss because I
know their pain.  

      My daughter and my son in law are very strong
people.  She's stonger than me but I hope she can
remain that way and continue.  I will always be here
for her whenever she needs me and hopefully she will
call upon me when she needs but I have, since she has
been married tried not to interfere and therefore
sometimes I just don't know what to do without
interfering. Her husband, Todd, seems to be all she
needs at this time and I am so thankful for that
because I feel that they need to grieve TOGETHER so
that they can resume their life TOGETHER.  Am I wrong
or what should I do different?   I love them so much! 
I just wish I could take this pain from them.  Thanks
for listening, Erin.  Please don't tell her that I'm
this worried.  Pat Schexnider, forever Ma Ma to
Catherine Renee. 



--- Erin Maurer <ekmaurer3@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:

> 
> 
> Pat,
> I am on the trisomy 18 website with your daughter. I
> can tell you that she
> is a very strong women. I read her story on there
> and I was heartbroken. My
> son also passed during birth just a month and half
> ago on March 3, 2006, he
> had trisomy 18.  Your daughter said God gave them
> signs during the delivery.
> I too felt the same thing during my delivery.  We
> had to decide whether or
> not to try and ressecutate our baby, but we felt God
> knew what was going on
> and that fact that we had to induce early meant that
> we should just let our
> baby Tyler go if he wasnt breathing.  Your daughter
> is truely an amazing
> women.
> There are times when I feel depressed. But the best
> thing you can do for
> your daughter is be there.  My mother made us meals
> and just came over.  It
> was nice.  Many people think you want to be left
> alone, or that you will
> call if you need something.  THe truth is that we
> dont call if we need
> something. It had been easier if people just do
> things.  We had friends and
> family just take it apon themselves to arange to
> bring dinners each night.
> That was the best thing. Then we also got to visit
> with friends each night.
> 
> Erin
> Mother to TYler Joel t-18 3/3/06 angel baby
> 
> 
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>                        www.trisomyonline.org
>                   Families Helping Families On-line
> 


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