[tri-wings] Re: Kerstin

 
  Kerstin Jutta Geitner & Hans Mose Jensen <kjg_hmj@xxxxxxxxx> wrote: 

>>>thank you so much, I really needed that. You had me getting the tissues...<<

((((Kerstin))))) my friend,thats what I am here for....that is what we are all 
here for!!...and you know you hold a special place in my thoughts as we got our 
membership to the group of mummies to new angels close together.

 

>>. At the moment I can relax when Hans tells me it is
ok, but I am putting a lot of strain on him at the moment. I have always
been the strong one, organizing comforting and so on and what can I offer
him now? <<

Hey,I am definately not the marriage expert(ha ha ha) but a relationship is in 
two halves...there has to be taking and giving on both sides.you have been 
strong and organised for Hans, so allow him to take some of the pressure and 
hurting from you.It's time for Kerstin to have someone look after 
her...ok!!!!!Do I have to come over there and make you or will you promise me 
that you will be the taker in the marriage for a time and allow Hans to give 
!!!??


>>I am having an appointment with my therapist again tuesday, she always
manages to get me in a good mood, even though I got sad last time through
all the issues we stirred up.<<

Hey we all need to cry..and yes when issues are stirred up we do hurt again 
like it just happened...but it takes along time for the hurt to lessen.But one 
day it will..I just wish I could tell you when.

>>Sorry for beeing such a mess, but that is the way I feel right now. I didn't
think so much that it was missing Oliver that made me sad, but when you
mentioned it, there were tears.<<

Sweetheart, dont apologise ...you are not a mess.You are normal just like me 
and everyone else here.Heck I have cried so many tears I thought I would drown 
in them.I will have to make you a promise to let you see that I am just the 
same as you.I do most of my crying in private emails...but the next time I will 
be here shouting!! Of course you miss Oliver,he is a part of your life and 
always will be and although you love Cecilia very much, she will always be 
Cecilia...she cannot fill the gap that is left by Oliver.I hope this makes 
sense .

take care my  special friend ...

big hugs

 

 

 

 

 



Mandy , mum to Matthew 9,Charlotte 8, and my two angels Gareth (t18 ^i^ Nov 
14th'99) and Dominic (cystic hygroma July 23 '00) 
England UK www.geocities.com/baby2angels2000

" Friendships begin because, even without words, we understand how someone 
feels."(Joan Walsh Anglund)   

 

    



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