[tri-wings] Re: Introduction - Christy

Welcome, Christy.  So sorry that you had to find this group, but what a
comfort you will find here.  I also lost a baby to T-13.  It was one of
the darkest times of my life.  This list brought so much support that I
found a little more light every day. =20

I understand your apprehension about trying for another baby.  My
husband felt the same as you.  In our situation, I was the one that
wanted to try again right away.  I just didn't feel "done".  I felt we
were meant to have another child.  It was scary to try again, but I am
so glad that we did.  We just had another child August 10th.  As you can
see by our daughter's birth/angel date and our new son's birth date, we
didn't wait long to try again - 3 months and we got pregnant the first
month we tried.  But, everyone is different.  There are some on this
list that waited a while before trying again.  You have to do what is
best for you and your husband.  Be on your own time table.  Don't let
anyone else dictate to you when you should or shouldn't try again.  You
will know when or it's the right time. =20


Hugs,
Brenda, wife to Rich, mommy to Matthew Alexander (2 1/2), Grace
Alexandra (^i^ 8/31/03 full T-13) and Nicholas Andrew (almost 3 months!)

-----Original Message-----
From: tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
[mailto:tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of christy o'leary
Sent: Saturday, October 30, 2004 8:22 PM
To: tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [tri-wings] Re: Introduction - Christy

I am sorry to here about Jessice. I lost my son on Sept. 28,2004 to full
t13. It has been one of the hardet thing that I have had to deal with.
This was my first child and I am scared to death to have more children.
My husband seems to ready to start again. Was it hard for you to have
more children? How long did you wait? Thank you for listening.
Christy

>From: "Deanna" <warpehoski@xxxxxxx>
>Reply-To: tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
>To: <tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
>Subject: [tri-wings] Re: Introduction - Christy
>Date: Sat, 30 Oct 2004 16:02:13 -0500
>
>
>----- Original Message -----
>From: "christy o'leary" <christy_o_leary@xxxxxxxxxxx>
>
>
> > Thank you for forming a support group for mom. I am sorry for your
>losses.
>I
> > feel like a relief that I don't have go thru this alone. Thank you!!
> >
>
>Hi Christy,
>
>I'm sorry that you had to find us.  Please write back and tell us more.

>We would love to hear about you and your brother or sister if you are=20
>up to it.
>I'm glad that we are able to help, and you are welcome to just "lurk"=20
>if that's what you'd like to do.  I'm here because of my little girl,
Jessica.
>She had full T18 and her story is listed on my website at
>http://home.att.net/~warpehoski   In addition to Jessica I also have a
>daughter Nicole who is 16 and a son Jake who is 12.  Then there is=20
>Rylee who was born last year on October 20.  Both Nicole and Jake had a

>very difficult time when we lost Jessica, but it is an experience that=20
>they would not take back.  Now that Nicole is driving she goes out to=20
>the cemetery and visits with Jessica.  She also went with me to the=20
>SOFT conference this year and made some very good friendships with=20
>other siblings.  It was a trip that definitely had an impact on her. =20
>Jessica really enriched her life, as well as ours.
>
>Again, welcome to the group - and let us know if we can help you.
>
>lotsofluv
>Deanna ~~~~
>Mom to Nicole 16, Jake 12, Jessica (our beautiful T18 angel) 5/04/02=20
>and Rylee 1 year old, 10/20/03!!!
>Wife to Mike
>Meet Jessica @ http://home.att.net/~warpehoski
>
>
>I live in my own little world.  But it's ok - They know me here.
>
>
>
>                   Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows
>                        www.trisomyonline.org
>                   Families Helping Families On-line

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