[tri-wings] Re: I got a tink today


--- Deaton Marianne D SSgt 28 MOS/MXOOA
<Marianne.Deaton@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:

My doc
> came to see us in
> the hospital after Christian passed away and I could
> see the tears in
> his eyes.  

There is so much value in that.  Mine too was awesome,
although one of his partners was a pile of dung, but
he even came to the vistation and brought his wife. 
My new Trisomy buddies also came at the same time and
they all hung out for quite a while, it was really
touching - considering some of the people that both
Mike and I worked with didn't come because ...it was
too hard.  Here's a group of people that for a couple
of them the last funeral they went to was their own
child's and they came but people that we worked with
day in and day out for several years couldn't come -
you really learn alot about people when you go through
something like that.



 I know it
> works but the process is slower then I expected.=20
> I never realized how much of a shock my body was in
> from the birth/loss
> of Christian and then the miscarriage.  I didn't
> realize it would take
> so long for it to go back to normal.=20
> 


((((Marianne))))  I remember those days so well. 
Every month the anger, and not quite able to figure
out what went wrong.  Then when we finally gave up -
AGAIN (got pregnant with Jessica the first time) it
happened, we found out while we were on vacation in
Mexico.  So, A - quite trying so hard and B- plan an
event where being pregnant might inconvenience things
a lot!  The trying so hard is the tough one, I was
planning on talking to Mike about adopting while we
were in Mexico.  We had met a couple at the airport
the night before we left that were on there way to
China to pick up their baby - and I figured that was a
message that maybe we needed to look seriously that
direction if we wanted another one.  Little did I know
that Little Miss Rylee had different plans at that
time.  I hope it works out for you and you'll have
little on in your arms soon.

  

lotsofluv
Deanna ~~~~
Mom to Nicole 18, Jake 14, Jessica (our beautiful T18 angel) 5/04/02 and
Rylee 2 3/4 !!!
Wife to Mike
Meet Jessica @ http://home.mchsi.com/~warpehoski


I live in my own little world.  But it's ok - They know me here.

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