[tri-wings] Re: How Do I Deal With This Pain?

tiffany,  I am usually more of a lurker too, but I had to respond to you.  
When Haley died, I did all I could to keep busy.  Three weeks after she died, I 
had two jobs, and was driving an hour and a half one way to get to one of 
them.  I tried to protect myself I guess, because as soon as I was alone, I 
would 
break down.  I think that I delt with her death incredibly well, but not in a 
healthy way for me.  It has almost been two years since she left me, and the 
pain in overwhelming.  I have had a very hard time this past year dealing with 
what God dealt me.  As far as what to do?  I dont want to point you in the 
wrong direction, everyone deals with grief in their own way...there is no right 
way to live with it.  I will say that I saw a councelor about 5 months after 
Haley died, and that helped me.  Im glad you posted....

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