[tri-wings] How Do I Deal With This Pain?

Hello Everyone

I've been on lurk mode for a while.  Just wanted to check in with all of =
you and tell you that I have been praying for you.

Also, I wanted to know how you dealt with certain stages of grief.  It =
seems like in the beginning I stared it in the face and dealt with =
everything well.  Now it seems that I can't deal with it at all and in =
order to live day to day I have to push it away so that it doesn't hurt =
so bad.  I find myself keeping as busy as possible so that the sadness =
doesn't creep in.  In your experiences do you find that that is normal =
and in time I will be able to cope better and not tuck the grief away or =
should I face it in order to move on?  I just feel like hiding from it =
may cause damage spiritually, but the pain is just too great even with =
God in my life.  Maybe he is allowing me to hide from it in order to =
cope.  I just don't know.


Blessings,
=20
Tiffany-Mommy to Ashley Grace-Our Sweet Baby Girl (Tetrasomy 9,
1/20/04-3/28/04) and wife to Chad=20

"For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it =
is
received with thanksgiving and consecrated by the Word of God and =
prayer..." Tim 4:4,5




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