[tri-wings] Re: Holiday Coping

:-))  I won't let them forget!!  I know if I don't speak of her first,
no one else will...........for a number of reasons.......they don't know
how to bring her up, or not sure if they will offend me, or make me
cry...So I speak of her, and include her by putting her little ornaments
on the tree...the ones with her name on, or the ones that I have been
given in remembrance of her.....I include her in our prayers before our
meal etc...,...I know it's hard, especially when there are little baby
girls around......but I do what is right for me....I don't expect
anything from others, so if there is something, then I appreciate it,
otherwise.....I don't mind them not mentioning her, if they don't mind
if I do!!

Know I'm not much help on that one...

Kathy s

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Sent: 27 October 2005 10:16 AM
To: Tri-Wings
Subject: [tri-wings] Holiday Coping

With the holidays coming up I was wondering how those that have faced
them before cope?=20
Do you remember your angels during the holidays?
What do your families do? Do they remember you and your angel as well,
or is it a case that they think you should have "gotten over it" by now?
"We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see
an imperfect person perfectly"
Sam Keen

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