[tri-wings] Re: Hi I just joined

I am new to this site so I would like to say hi and that my name is
Marianne.=20
We found out in June that he had Trisomy 13 and he was born on Sept 29th
he passed away on 1 Oct. At his service I had the chaplain read a poem
that talked about a mother and how she was hurting but it hurt her even
more not to have some one ask her how she was doing and about the baby
she lost.  I think that poem speaks out for most mothers and possibly
fathers. I know you are your sister are going through a lot Stacy but if
you guys support and comfort one another it will help you both.
Grieving is hard no matter what. I wish I had more to say but I don't. =20
Marianne

stacy-
my sister just listened to the same stuff over and over while i cried.
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was the best thing she could have done and the only thing she felt she
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how to do, so it worked well. it will probably never be easy to see her=20
pain, but you have to remember you are grieving, too.  it is the worst
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all things to have happen as you unfortunatly already know.  there are
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rules. the best thing for me has been people who are not afriad to talk=20
about tyler bring him up themselves.  hard for most to do, but so nice
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grieving parents and relatives.  noone wants their baby forgotten.

take it easy,
pam, t 13 angel tyler, kira almost 4 and abbey due in may
elora ontario



. My sister is having a hard time
> also which makes it harder on me because I am very close to my sister
(my
> only sibling) and I can't stand to see her in pain.>
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