Thanks Stacy, I think the sisterly bond is just as strong as the bond I have with my brother. I think he cried just as much as I did when Christian passed away.=20 I think it is special and extremely touching, I think your sister appreciates all of your support. I know I appreciate my brothers. It is funny the day Christian passed away my dad and I were arguing on whether to take him home or not. They were kicking me out of the hospital and I didn't want to leave him there. They said I could stay but if someone else came in and needed the room I would have to leave. God made the decision for us and took his angel. It was hard but I know he knew I didn't want to leave him so he took him to be with him instead.=20 I am glad Jamin got to go home... I wanted to take Christian home so bad but everyone was against it so we stayed in the hospital and I am glad we didn't because he wouldn't have been with us as long as he was.=20 Please remind your sister to cherish those moments. I know I will I made him a scrap book just like Anthony and it is turning out to be a memorial. I have his SS card and a lot of other little things. He even has a precious moment's birthday train.=20 I think your sister will figure out her outlet to help her grieve mine is talking to you guys and doing everything I can to keep his memory a live.=20 Marianne -----Original Message----- From: tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx [mailto:tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of BADABOONES@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: Monday, February 27, 2006 8:01 AM To: tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: [tri-wings] Re: Hi I just joined Welcome Marianne and I am sorry you have to be here. My nephew Jamin proved=20 the doctors wrong for a while too. Jamin lived 5 weeks and he too was not=20 supposed to make it through pregnancy, delivery, or to come home. He was home all=20 but his first few days of life and last couple. Isn't it amazing how much you=20 can love someone in such a short amount of time? I know I am only his aunt but=20 I loved him and still love him like my own. I hope one day my sister will join=20 all of you right now she just doesn't want to talk about it to everybody. The=20 love, care, and support on this site is so helpful! Once again welcome and hugs to you, Stacy Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line