[tri-wings] Re: Hey everyone

So true LouAnn
And so well put...I just clam up rather than try explain..

Kathy s from South Africa

Dear (((Nicole,)))
=20Please don't punish yourself for feeling this way. Taking care of your=

feelings  is not selfish. It took us a long long time to be able to look
at baby clothes, newborns ,expectant mothers, etc. The first weeks and
months we just wanted to stay togther in the safety of Melissa's house
and not deal with the Outsiders. Most won't ever understand the true
extend of losing a baby.We will always have a missing piece.  We pray
they don't ever have to but we still have great healing to happen before
we can find  peace. One day at a time our hearts will heal. My
grandaughter talks of her precious baby brother Kaden and misses him
so.She just can't kiss Renna enough but says I just don't have my Kaden.
It is in comforting her that we also find comfort. Be easy on yourself
and demand others are also. When the time is right you can tell your
relatives it's not that you don't share their happiness it is just such
an overpowering grief in the loss of Kasidy that will take time to deal
with. Continue to talk and help others in her memory and peace will
come. Lots of Love, LouAnn York,NE Grammy to Maelin Ann,3 Kaden
James^i^9/04/02 our heavenly Angel full t-13 and Renna Grace, born on
the 4th of July 03 our gift from God and Kaden.


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