[tri-wings] Re: Hey everyone

Dear (((Nicole,)))
 Please don't punish yourself for feeling this way. Taking care of your 
feelings  is
not selfish. It took us a long long time to be able to look at baby clothes, 
newborns
,expectant mothers, etc. The first weeks and months we just wanted to stay 
togther in
the safety of Melissa's house and not deal with the Outsiders. Most won't ever
understand the true extend of losing a baby.We will always have a missing 
piece.  We
pray they don't ever have to but we still have great healing to happen before 
we can
find  peace. One day at a time our hearts will heal. My grandaughter talks of 
her
precious baby brother Kaden and misses him so.She just can't kiss Renna enough 
but
says I just don't have my Kaden.  It is in comforting her that we also find 
comfort.
Be easy on yourself and demand others are also. When the time is right you can 
tell
your relatives it's not that you don't share their happiness it is just such an
overpowering grief in the loss of Kasidy that will take time to deal with. 
Continue
to talk and help others in her memory and peace will come.
Lots of Love,
LouAnn
York,NE
Grammy to Maelin Ann,3 Kaden James^i^9/04/02 our heavenly Angel full t-13 and 
Renna
Grace, born on the 4th of July 03 our gift from God and Kaden.

XoKaSiDy143oX@xxxxxxx wrote:

> Hi Everyone,
>    Well how is all doing , I am ok. Well I feel like all i do is work and
> work. Well i have a question to ask u guys. See my cousin just had a baby 
> girl on
> Sun, of course i am happy but sad, I mean i don't show that to them, but
> inside it bothers me, cuz i feel like my Kasidy should be here also, I know 
> it's
>


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