[tri-wings] Re: He hit me, what do I do?

>  Ok this is hard to write, but I need advice. Last night charles
> was typing at the computer and I was trying to ask him a question,
> when all of the sudden he just snapped. He got really mad and
> was yelling. So then he came and layed down on the bed with me
> and I thought he was done so I asked him what all that was about
> and he wasn't done, he freaked out again

((Trisha))

I really don't know how to answer this one.  It doesn't matter what the
problem is, and you both have a damn good one, but there's never any excuse
for hitting a woman, EVER!  Have either of you been offered counselling?  It
does help, but as Charles has done this before (were there stressful
circumstances there?) then he needs help and quickly.  I haven't been in
this kind of situation before, but maybe you both need a break and Charles
should look into Anger Management counselling.  I'd advise that you go and
talk to your doctor, or someone you trust from that profession and et help.
We all grieve and shout at each other...believe me, John and I did...but
never did that happen.  I wish I could say more to help, but getting
professional advise asap is what I would recommend, but others here might be
able to offer more than I can.
Please keep us posted, you know where we are if you need us.
Take care
Sharon

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