[tri-wings] Re: First birthday without Brendan

On Jul 21, 2005, at 7:14 PM, <mcs811@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
> Next week will be 6 month since Brendan passed away and I have been  
> crying on and off just thinking about it.  We got the footstone and  
> headstone done and I have yet to go see it.  The following week is  
> his birthday and every time I think about it I burst out in tears.
(((((Mikki)))))
You have so much going on in your life that I wish I was there to hug  
you in person!!!  I'm so hoping that you can get to the Conference  
and get the hugs from others on this list.
And with Brendan's angel day just 6 months ago and his birthday  
coming up, you have the right to react any way that comforts you -  
even if it means breaking into tears at the thought of doing any  
planning for it.  You still need to grieve in your own way.  Let it  
just be for you.  Take care of yourself and your kids.

And I just want to remind any of you that have not added your  
birthdays and angel days to Mary's list, e-mail her off the list and  
give her the information.  She will be glad to get it added.  I think  
it is so neat to have that reminder for the rest of us because even  
though we remember, we forget the dates.  So --  let Mary Capp know  
when Brendan's birthday and Angel day are.  And if you want, let her  
know when yours is, too.  Then they will show up on the list.

Sheila
MN Grandma to Hope (T-18 Nov1,01) & Alison, Cadence & Bridge
Mom to Cheryl (& Denny) and Wade (& Charity)
Wife to hubby, Richard
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