[tri-wings] FW: Re: Introduction - Christy

Not sure if this came through the first time...I forgot to delete
previous posts that I was replying to.....


Welcome, Christy.  So sorry that you had to find this group, but what a
comfort you will find here.  I also lost a baby to T-13.  It was one of
the darkest times of my life.  This list brought so much support that I
found a little more light every day. =20

I understand your apprehension about trying for another baby.  My
husband felt the same as you.  In our situation, I was the one that
wanted to try again right away.  I just didn't feel "done".  I felt we
were meant to have another child.  It was scary to try again, but I am
so glad that we did.  We just had another child August 10th.  As you can
see by our daughter's birth/angel date and our new son's birth date, we
didn't wait long to try again - 3 months and we got pregnant the first
month we tried.  But, everyone is different.  There are some on this
list that waited a while before trying again.  You have to do what is
best for you and your husband.  Be on your own time table.  Don't let
anyone else dictate to you when you should or shouldn't try again.  You
will know when or it's the right time. =20


Hugs,
Brenda, wife to Rich, mommy to Matthew Alexander (2 1/2), Grace
Alexandra (^i^ 8/31/03 full T-13) and Nicholas Andrew (almost 3 months!)


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