[tri-wings] Re: Emotions


--- Georgiann Duggan <geduggan@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:

> As most of you know Lauren, who just turned 3 on
> April 4th, passed away on 
> April 27th..  I am having an extremely hard time,
> although talking to me, 
> you probably wouldn't know it..



Georgiann,

First and foremost, you are not losing your mind. 
What you are going through is natural.   This ugly
grief monster is full of emotions that most of us were
unaware that we were capable of feeling without being
committed somewhere.  The guilt, anger, sadness, loss
of emotion, etc is all normal.  You are at such a raw
stage, don't try to push yourself too hard - it hasn't
even been a month.  When you lose a child, not only do
you lose someone that you love but you also lose a
future.  It's a double wammy and it takes time, so
much time, to get through.  Find someone that you can
let it out to, and if that's us that's fine, but it
also helps to have a real shoulder to cry on.  If
getting through it means you have to pretend to the
outside that all is well, by all means do whatever
works for you, but don't bottle it up too much.  Make
sure you have a vent or your shingles will fall off.

Just keep in mind that we are always here, and it's
okay to feel the way you do.

lotsofluv
Deanna ~~~~
Mom to Nicole 17, Jake 14, Jessica (our beautiful T18 angel) 5/04/02 and
Rylee 2 1/2 !!!
Wife to Mike
Meet Jessica @ http://home.mchsi.com/~warpehoski


I live in my own little world.  But it's ok - They know me here.

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