[tri-wings] Re: Emotions


>>>When I first lost my Rebecca, I was just in a state of
numb.............I couldn't get what other people where on
about.........I was absolutely cocooned in numb..........<<<


this is so true, all of it, and everything that everyone else has
described.........and even though we all "knew" that at some point we would
loose are triers, there is no way we could have ever ever really known how
it would feel...........I remember feeling some what like this when my dad
died (we were not that  close, long story)  but this is a million times
worse...........I remember about a month after Bec died my husband made some
remark about how awful he was still feeling I think he was kind of wondering
if there was something wrong with him,  I told him that how he was feeling
was normal and it would be abnormal if he was fine and "over it"



Susan mom to Rebecca t18m 06/06/91 - 05/02/06 and Mark age 13 1/2 ADD/LD




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