[tri-wings] Re: Double for Grandparents


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From: "Sheila Helleson" <hellesos@xxxxxxxxxx>
To: "Tri-Wings Message" <Tri-Wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Sent: Sunday, September 29, 2002 10:40 PM
Subject: [tri-wings] Double for Grandparents



>

>
> I want so badly to go to see them, and go to the cemetery, and be there
for
> Hope's birthday.  But -  they are hurting so much that they are trying to
> keep so busy that they don't have time to let anyone in...
>
> I miss my daughter.  I miss the closeness we had that now seems lost
because
> it is so hard to talk over the telephone lines.  And I miss my
granddaughter
> and all she would have been....
>
>.... As I sit here and cry, I know that Cheryl is crying, too.  And I can't
be
> there to hug her and tell her I love her.   Gosh, it hurts.  Enough.
>

>
> Sheila
> Grandma to Hope  Nov. 1, 2001

Sheila,
Sending huge hugs your way.  I know it has to be hard what you're going
through with Cheryl.  Just keep letting her know you're there for her and
I'm sure she'll eventually open up.  You know we're here for you to listen
as much as you need us to.  And you can always phone if you need to talk to
an actual human voice.  I'm kinda on both sides of things:  as a mother I
lost Erin,  but I am also a grandmother and I hate to imagine how terrible
it would hurt if anything happened to one of my little grandchildren.
Hugs, hugs, hugs,
Gloria

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