[tri-wings] Re: Double for Grandparents


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From: "Sheila Helleson" <hellesos@xxxxxxxxxx>


>
> Boy, Mandy, you hit the nail right on the head.  It is almost 11 months
> since we lost Hope.  And when I talked to Cheryl on Saturday, she said
this
> is going to be the hardest month.  And her husband is just starting to
> realize that the grief is there.> I want so badly to go to see them, and
go to the cemetery, and be there for
> Hope's birthday.  But -  they are hurting so much that they are trying to
> keep so busy that they don't have time to let anyone in<<<.


(((((((Sheila))))))), I feel so bad for you.  I remember Beth writing in
when her DIL was pregnant saying that she felt somewhat left out and not
wanting to pressure them.  I'm sure my MIL has felt the same at times to.
At the time I was pregnant, it was so difficult because we would have to go
over and over all the bad news with each doctor's appointment and I had such
a hard time dealing with the disappointment on the other side of the phone.
Now I need to talk it out, and the ones that listen to me best are my mom
and MIL.  My mom and I have gotten closer because she truely understands
what I am going through - she lost a baby also.  I hope that someday Cheryl
is able to open her heart back up to you.  Just let her know that you love
her and I'm sure she will.

take care of yourself, and come vent anytime - we will cyber squeeze you til
you turn blue!!!

lotsoflove
Deanna--
wife to Mike, mom to Nicole 14, Jake 10, and  Jessica 5/4/02 (our precious
angel -t18)
Coal Valley, IL USA
Meet Jessica @ http://home.att.net/~warpehoski


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