[tri-wings] Re: Dilema...Preg mentioned

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From: "Kathryn Singery (VSP)" <Kathryn.Singery@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>

> Is it
> right? Am I tempting fate by wanting another child so late in my life??
> Help, Help, Help...!!!
>

Kathy,

You don't even need my answer here.  I just turned 41, so I'm not far behind
you.  We still haven't done anything permanent - and I'm waffling back and
forth.  The logical side says that raising the one after raising two will be
much easier.  Less fighting , less cost, less fighting, we still fit in the
house, less fighting......but the emotional side says, Rylee is 12 years
younger than anyone else on my side of the family - she will have no close
connections and Mike's family all lives elsewhere.  Plus, she is getting SO
DARN SPOILED.  I see Jake and Nicole being at each other, but they are also
very close.  I can't imagine one without the other.  I also worry that if
anything happens to us, since we are older Rylee will be left alone -
there's just so much to consider, it all needs to be written down.  As far
as tempting fate - God will take care of that, that's not your call.  If it
happens, it happens and there is nothing you can do - it's God's decision if
you have a healthy baby or not. (That's just my feelings).  Good luck and
how exciting!!!!!

lotsofluv
Deanna ~~~~
Mom to Nicole 16, Jake 12, Jessica (our beautiful T18 angel) 5/04/02 and
Rylee 1 year old, 10/20/03!!!
Wife to Mike
Meet Jessica @ http://home.att.net/~warpehoski


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