[tri-wings] Re: Can I Still Grieve?(burr)

good luck with the ultrasound on thursday, burr.  i will be thinking of you.
  darrell and i decided we would try to have another baby some time soon and 
he is terrified.  he is afraid that something bad will happen this time, 
too. when we went to our loss group, i saw how differently the men had coped 
with losing their kids than the women did.  it was an eye-opener. sounds 
like your husband deals with being scared differently, too.  even though we 
know that tyler's t13 was a random thing, darrell still wants to have both 
of us tested (despite the fact that the geneticist assured us that we were 
fine, that if either of us had a translocation that caused problems it would 
have shown up in tyler).  i can't blame him, he says he could not live thru 
that again and either could i.

i hope you can find a way to enjoy your pregnancy.
sending warm thoughts and cyber hugs,

pam and darrell, t 13 angel tyler and kira
elora ontario 


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