[tri-wings] Re: Brenda

Brenda

>>>>>>>>>>I don't post much anymore since my life is way crazy with two 
>>>>>>>>>>children,hubby, dog and a very busy job;>>>

TELL ME ABOUT IT!

>>>>>>We delivered our daughter at 17 weeks, she was stillborn.  I got 
>>>>>>NOTHING...no birth certificate, no death certificate, no stillborn 
>>>>>>certificate.  I couldn't name her officially, I couldn't take her body 
>>>>>>and donate it to science, I couldn't bury her, NOTHING. >>>>>>>>>>>

I'm so sorry to hear this.  I can imagine how painful this must have been 
for you.  I always felt lucky that I had those experiences for Connor, 
because in a way it helps you go through the motions of grieving, 
acceptance, etc.  And although they are just motions at that stage, it helps 
to look back on.  I really hope something does get changed.

I read baby Zeke's story on the link and it sounds like the experience at 
that perinatal hospice is probably as close as we will get to a good 
handling of the situation - maybe we can hope that other places will follow 
their lead and make sure everyone gets the help they need.

Demi
Mummy to ickle angel Connor Adam
& Matthew McDermid (terrible twos!)
& Ziggy the dog

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