[tri-wings] Re: Birthday & Angel days--Regan

>>>>>>>>Aimee,I'm so sorry to hear you haven't had the support you need
during this extremely emotional time.  I'm still in beginning of the
grieving process, but I've had my disappoinments with family members and
I've talked to several other bereaved parents who've experienced the same.
Sometimes it seems other parents who've had a loss are the only ones who
"get it".  I hope you know the families on the list will always care about
your little Angel.>>>>>>> 

I agree with Maya,  the pain is always there and even though we function
thoughts of our angels are always with us.  Recently I had a friend say to
me that we needed to let Rebecca go so that she could go to heaven ( she is
a new friend since Rebecca passed so she did not know Rebecca)  I know that
she did not mean to be hurtful and that it is just her value system,
something about if you hold on to them to tightly they cant move on ( to
heaven) as they are meant to.   And I guess to someone who did not know
Rebecca our house would look like a shrine :0)  and it is true that we get
the most support from those who have gone though the same trials that we are
going through

{{{{{{{{{{{{{Aimee}}}}}}}}}}}}}}


Susan Mom to Rebecca T18 M 6/6/91-5/2/06 and Mark ADD/LD age 16

  

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