[tri-wings] Re: Birthday & Angel days--Regan

Yes, it is amazing!  And thank you to everyone who remembered Regan for me
this week..no one else did in my family or my husband's family.  One dear
friend did a balloon release on Monday with her son, but that is it.  I am
grateful for all the warm thoughts and condolences I received from this list
during Regan's week.  It seems Regan is forgotten by everyone except those
of us who know and understand from our own experience.  Am I being
unreasonable to think that at least one person in our families would
remember and say something - anything?  The hour of her death just passed a
few minutes ago at 8:37 p.m. and there was nothing this week from anyone. I
have 6 brothers and sisters and so does my husband.  If I have bitterness,
it is over the fact that no one seems to care or remember Regan.or that I
might be hurting.
 

I took a rose to Regan's grave Monday morning for her birthday and
immediately burst out in tears.  After three years it is still so painful I
can hardly allow myself to feel the reality of it all.  Even though I am not
bitter about her death (and it's perfectly okay for others to feel angry at
God - I completely understand), my arms are still empty and I'm still
devastated that my baby is gone.  

 

Moreover, I now live in even greater fear because my 7 year old daughter,
Rachel, is also an 18.and I know all too well what can happen.  I am more
afraid than ever of losing Rachel, too.  And no one seems to get it..but I
know all of you out there do and I appreciate it.

 

Thanks for being there!

 

Aimee in Cincinnati, Ohio (USA) 

(mother to Rachel (full T-18) 4/18/01, Jillian Yun Ping, Ian and Regan (full
T-18) 2/9/06-2/11/06 ^i^) 

http://home.roadrunner.com/~meierlaw/

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----
From: tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx [mailto:tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx]
On Behalf Of Kim and Gloria
Sent: Sunday, February 08, 2009 10:22 PM
To: tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [tri-wings] Re: Birthday & Angel days--Regan

 

Quoting Meierlaw <meierlaw@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx>:

 

> .and Regan Teresa Meier 2/9/06-2/11/06

> 

 

 

Thinking of you Aimee on Regan's special days.  Isn't it amazing how someone
you have for such a short time can have such a huge impact on  

your life?

 

Hugs to you and your family,

Gloria-mommy to angel Erin(11/4/94-5/4/95)

http://remembering_erin.tripod.com/

 

 

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