[tri-wings] Re: Bess now Kathy-pregnancy mentioned

On 10/23/06, Midwifehelp@xxxxxxx <Midwifehelp@xxxxxxx> wrote:

> I just got done telling someone else that now that Will is here, it is like
> coming out of a terrible fog into a beautiful new world of hope. I could
> barely  concentrate on anything throughout his pregnancy I was so overwhelmed 
> with
> doubts and fears.



To all of you  who are pregnant or the new post-trisomy mom's:

First of all congratulations on your new found happiness.  You all
deserve the happiness that a newborn can give.  Unfortunately, we all
have been robbed the innocense of a healthy noneventful pregnancy.  I
think there is also a sense of guilt for trying to enjoy that
pregnancy and the sense of guilt for loving another child.  This is
often overlooked due to the fear of what might happen.   I don't know
that I have any advice on how to get over that other than having faith
that good things can happen.......and they do.

I added a page to our website a year ago because I felt that this
topic needed to be discussed.  I don't know if it has helped anyone,
but it describes a lot of the feelings that I went through since Rylee
was born.  If anyone would like to visit, it's at
http://home.mchsi.com/~warpehoski/lifeaftertrisomy-3yearslater.html  I
hope that it helps some of you realize that your feelings only make
you as crazy as me - okay, so that's not a good example, but at least
you know that you aren't alone in your world - like it or not my world
crosses into yours.

-- 
hugs,
Deanna~~~~
mom to Nicole 18, Jake 14, Jessica 4, ( in Heaven 05/04/02) and Rylee 3 .

meet Jessica @ http://home.mchsi.com/~warpehoski

"I live in my own little world.  But it's ok, they know me here!"
                  Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows
                       www.trisomyonline.org
                  Families Helping Families On-line

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