[tri-wings] Barbie(was Matti Sutton)


PhunAcres@xxxxxxx wrote:
>>Mandy you have the most wonderful way of comforting. Truly a gift, we are so 
very lucky you are here for us. Thank you for all you do and say, you are a 
treasure!!<<


Thanks Barbie but I guess its just lessons I learned the hard way.. .:**(

I do feel that by doing what I do (and it's not that much really...you guys 
make the list what it is) I can give back some of what I took when I joined 
Wings.I know how important it was for me to have somewhere to come and not feel 
I couldn't talk about my boys.Steve buried them both on the days of their 
funerals and that was the end as far he was concerned.I have sat in front of 
this monitor and keyboard and shed many many tears and made some wonderful 
friends who are extra special because they have all been touched in some way by 
special angels(earthly and heavenly).Friends here have seen me through some of 
the worst times in my life(not just losing my boys) and if I can give just a 
small bit of that back to others then I know my angels didn't die for nothing.I 
do what I do because of them.....without them I could sit here and give out all 
the grief platitudes but they would be meaningless.I used to have a quote on my 
signature line that was something about no one better to bind anothers wounds 
than someone who felt the same wounds and I believe that whole heartedly.

Ok so I've gone off on a tangent now LOL but thanks ,even though thanks are not 
really needed...:-)

 

 



big hugs

Mandy,mum to Matthew 10,Charlotte 9 , Gareth (t18 ^i^ Nov 14th'99) and Dominic 
(Cystic Hygroma ^i^ July 23rd '00)  (UK)

http://www.geocities.com/baby2angels2000

"Love is a fabric which never fades,no matter how often it is washed in the 
water of grief."





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