[tri-wings] Re: A letter from above :*(

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From: "Deanna Warpehoski" <warpehoski@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
.  When people
> would say "I'm so sorry" I would respond "don't be, we have an angel!!!"
I
> know, I know, it's all very well meant and I did not hold it against
anyone,
> I just felt jipped because noone congratulated us on the birth of our
> daughter.

I agree.  It definitely would have been nice to hear more "Congratulations"
and "He's beautiful".  I certainly don't think positive comments could have
made anything worse for us at the time.  There were so many tears.  Things
were so different anyway, I think a little bit of normalness(if that's a
word) would have been good.  Even a couple of tiny outfits or sleepers from
someone would have been nice.  Brandon was with us for a month and he mostly
had to wear clothes that were used by his brother.  Not that that's so bad,
but it would have been nice to see him in his very own new little clothes
and there would have been more keepesakes for me too.  When you lose your
baby, keepsakes become pretty important.

Shelly - mommy to an angel
Brandon John (7/10-8/8/92, T18)
and Josh(11), Taylor(7) and Alex(1)
http://remembering_brandon.tripod.com
shellysnyder@xxxxxxxx



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