[tri-wings] Re: A letter from above :*(

 
 Shelly Snyder wrote:

>>. I felt a
little guilty after reading that letter for all the times I've said 3
instead of 4. Thanks for letting me know I'm not a bad person.<<

(((((Shelly))))))

If everyone had an inbuilt ability to understand exactly what we went through 
then I would have no hesitation in saying 4.I just think that human nature 
makes us protect ourselves.We have been dealt an indescribable hurt and we just 
build up a wall that stops anymore .Well I do anyhow.If someone has gone 
through a miscarriage,stillbirth or child loss then they know the hurt and I 
dont have a problem sharing Gareth and Dominic with them.Like here...I know 
everyone knows how I feel and I know that know one will say anything stupid 
like I should be over it or they werent real babies.People who are not lucky 
enough to be parents to special angels are the ones I have problems with.

And no you are not a bad person...dont ever think it.If you are, then so am I 
and a good many more with us.Brandon knows that you love and miss him and I'm 
sure he understands why sometimes you say 3.

I'd like to know who it was that wrote that letter(just said author unknown) so 
I could thank them...so many of the things that were mentioned are difficult 
things we have to learn to deal with and it was nice "seeing"it from an angel 
point of view.

big hugs

 

 

 



 



Mandy,mum to Matthew 9,Charlotte 8 , Gareth (t18 ^i^ Nov 14th'99) Dominic 
(Cystic Hygroma ^i^ July 23rd '00) and soon to be mum of our "special little 
someone" (England UK)

www.geocities.com/baby2angels2000/index.html

"Who then can so softly bind up the wound of another as he who has felt the 
same wound" - Thomas Jefferson 



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