please if i affended anyone about my opinon on saying that when i am asked how many children i have i say three .thats my opinon i was just replying like everyone else here .but i do aplogize if this made anyone feel bad .and no you are not a bad person everyone has there own mind and thats ok .but please forgive me i was just emailing like everyone else.sorry irellsmomjodi:)4eva^i^o^ -----Original Message----- From: Shelly Snyder [mailto:shellysnyder@xxxxxxxx] Sent: Wednesday, July 31, 2002 1:37 PM To: tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: [tri-wings] Re: A letter from above :*( Mandy, I'm so glad I'm not the only one. Maybe I am normal after all. I felt a little guilty after reading that letter for all the times I've said 3 instead of 4. Thanks for letting me know I'm not a bad person. Shelly - mommy to an angel Brandon John (7/10-8/8/92, T18) and Josh(11), Taylor(7) and Alex(1) http://remembering_brandon.tripod.com shellysnyder@xxxxxxxx ----- Original Message ----- From: "Mandy" <baby2angels2000@xxxxxxxxx> To: <tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Tuesday, July 30, 2002 12:25 PM Subject: [tri-wings] Re: A letter from above :*( > > > Shelly Snyder wrote: > > >>. I know in the past when I have > answered this question I usually say 3 instead of 4. That is ONLY because I > try to avoid that look of pity that people give me when they hear that I > lost a baby. I hate that pitiful look<< > > Shelly I'm with you all on the way on that one.Sometimes I say two and sometimes four.Although most recently I have altered slightly and tend to say I have two earth angels and two heavenly ones.It depends on who asks and how I feel that day.If I feel emotional(364 days out of a year) then I stick with two. > > big hugs > > > > Mandy,mum to Matthew 9,Charlotte 8 , Gareth (t18 ^i^ Nov 14th'99) Dominic (Cystic Hygroma ^i^ July 23rd '00) and soon to be mum of our "special little someone" (England UK) > > www.geocities.com/baby2angels2000/index.html > > "Who then can so softly bind up the wound of another as he who has felt the same wound" - Thomas Jefferson > > > > --------------------------------- > Do You Yahoo!? > Yahoo! Health - Feel better, live better > > Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows > www.trisomyonline.org > Families Helping Families On-line > > > Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line