[tri-wings] Re: 2nd Big Favor

In a message dated 1/25/02 8:06:42 AM Central Standard Time, 
janjohn83@xxxxxxxxxxx writes:


> If you could send
> me the following information

--What things are helpful that people do or say?

I think one of the biggest things for us that I remember was just being there 
for us. A hug when we need it or just standing back and leaving us alone when 
we need that. Listening to us as we talk about Jessica, or asking us about 
her or what we think we might be like. Right after the funeral, a lot of 
people prepared food for us so we didn't have to cook for several 
days.......we could just vegetate and be with each other, thinking about 
Jessie and trying to deal with it.

--What things have people done or said that were hurtful?




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