Jude, you are a great mom ! Dr's are robots and don't know from anything except a textbook. Most of them are all business and callous. If that Dr lived one day in your shoes, that Dr would be helping and encouraging you with new ideas and a new plan, not attacking you....... i don't take any of it personally anymore, i know that unless you live it, you just have no clue what it is like, what hard work it is, having a child with special needs. i use this to get me through everyday, with dr's with friends, with relatives. nothing hurts me anymore. i know i am freakin amazing for doing what i do and not having ever had a nervous breakdown. We are all INCREDIBLE. We are all phenomenal moms !! and i know i did not need to tell you that, i know you know you are ! Love, Sharon mom to Jason T17M, 8 months, and Lauren 2 1/2 and wanting another one. **************Ideas to please picky eaters. Watch video on AOL Living. (http://living.aol.com/video/how-to-please-your-picky-eater/rachel-campos-duffy/ 2050827?NCID=aolcmp00300000002598) Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line