[tri-med] Re: greiving

I am sorry I am just now getting to your email.  I think that every single one 
of us have been in your shoes many times for each of us.  I think we have all 
been in denial many times too.  I know for me it was so hard thinking about 
down the road.  I would just look at what Logan was doing or is doing now.  It 
would strike me when my two neice's that are a year younger then Logan would do 
things that he struggled for months to do.  Or now they have passed him.  It 
was hit me so hard it would ruin my entire day.  There comes an acceptance with 
time.  I think or it is my belief that as Logan is unconditionally loved and 
encouraged by me that it enough for right now anyway.  I, along with the nurses 
and the therapists just keep pushing Logan to the next level.  It is slow at 
times and frustrating that we not moving along as fast as we should.  But then 
Logan will take off and make leaps and bounds of progress.  It is so hard, sad, 
happy and exciting all at one time.  I don't kno
 w if it gets better or it just becomes more normal and accepted.  Either way 
it will not always be so crushing.  We are here for you, but I am sure you 
already know that.  Tina


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