[tri-med] Re: Platitudes you hate

I understand that usually people just don't know what to say, but they want to 
say something.  None the less, my least favorite by far is the old "God never 
gives you more than you can handle" shmeal.  Very untrue.  If God is doling out 
lives, then thanks alot dude!  I'm depressed, I'm on anti depressents, we can 
barely go out to the swing set let alone actually have a life and do things, 
Faren hates the sun, the sun!!  God's own creation, she makes sounds that drill 
holes in your brain, I'll be living this life I didn't choose for the rest of 
my life even if Faren does pass away, my marriage has suffered, my soul is 
dead, blah blah blah, etc etc etc.   I just can't imagine that God would put us 
through this day after day after day after day.  Nothing makes me feel worse 
than when someone tells me that God is testing me day after day after day after 
day!  I QUIT!  Ok, now don't get me wrong ; )~  I am a spiritual person.  So 
therefore,  I am trying to
 find the positive in all of this.  It's not easy.  Not at all.  But even if 
God didn't make this happen, it none the less did happen and I need to deal 
with it the best that I can.  And, hopefully with a positve(or as positive as 
possible) attitude, I might really truly learn something from Faren, whom I do 
love dearly with all my heart.  

Peace, Michelle, mother to Faren


      
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