[tri-med] Re: Our baby

> >I do have two questions:
 >> 1. Is it true that if a child is born with a trisomy that the drs won't do 
 >> surgeries?
 > 2. For the moms...did you feel your babies moving a lot or not much at all?
 > Thank you again for all your support
  >:) Samantha

Samantha,
My son, Morgan, is 9 yrs. old now.  We, too, knew about his trisomy prenatally. 
 Although we didn't feel like it at the time, compared to what some parents go 
thru, our perinatalogist and o.b. were supportive of our decision to carry to 
term and told us quite honestly they did not know what to expect after Morgan 
was born.  

Morgan seemed quite active in the womb.  I have no other children so I don't 
have anything to compare it with, but I seemed to feel kicks and punches for 
hours on end.   But, I didn't feel any activity until after 21 wks.  

We chose aggressive care for Morgan after he was born.  He did not have any of 
the issues you mentioned your baby has, but he did have esophageal atresia and 
t.e. fistula.  When it became apparent to the drs. that Morgan was going to 
survive for longer than a week they offered to do surgery to repair these 
issues.  He did fine with the surgery and also had surgery for inguinal hernia 
at about 10 wks. of age.  We have parents on the list that will tell you their 
stories of drs. that refused to do surgery on their child with t18.  But that 
is not all drs.  I hope you are able to find a dr. that will do what you want 
for your baby.  Good luck!


Holly --  wife of Mike, mom of Morgan (9 yrs.), partial t18q & partial monosomy 
9p (unbalanced translocation)
mommy to Clyde (gray kitty) & Cleopatra (white kitten)
Des Moines, IA




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