The death of a loved one is one of lifes difficult experiences. There is no right or wrong way to grieve. Grief does not unfold in orderly predictable stages. It can be an emotional rollercoaster, with unpredictable highs, lows, and setbacks. Yes indeed, Johnnie was a true advocater. It is so nice to read all of the wonderful things about her. We must continue to support each other during this time. Everyone must give themselves permission to grieve. It is normal. Please, don't let anyone tell you how long to greive. Listen to each other and be compassionate to one another. As we all know, Johnnie was a very cheerful person; so lets continue to laugh about the fun times, and remember her as you knew her.