[nasional_list] [ppiindia] In land of the Kama Sutra, a clampdown on romance?
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By Somini Sengupta The New York Times
THURSDAY, JANUARY 5, 2006
MEERUT, India On a crisp winter's afternoon in this small, unremarkable
north Indian town, several couples - some married, some not - sat together on
the benches of a well-groomed little park named after the country's most famous
champion of nonviolence: Mohandas Gandhi.
Soon came a band of stick-wielding police officers with television news
cameras in tow. They yanked the couples by their necks, as though they were so
many pesky cats, and slapped them around with their bare hands. The young women
shielded their faces with their shawls. The men cowered from the cameras.
Apparently intended to clamp down on what the police consider indecent
public displays of affection among unmarried couples, the nationally televised
tableau in Gandhi Park backfired terribly. It set off charges of police
brutality, prompted at least one young unmarried pair to run away from home for
a couple of days and revealed a yawning divide on notions of social mores and
individual rights in a tradition-bound swath of India where the younger
generation is nudging for change.
"This is a basic infringement of our right to freedom," cried Vikas Garg,
21, a master's student in mass communications at the local Chaudhry Charan
Singh University, a couple of days after the raid.
"We are free to sit where we want."
Meerut police officials conceded that some officers overreacted.
But they also defended their actions. Couples sat in "objectionable
poses," said a defiant Mamta Gautam, a police officer accused in the beatings,
including some with people's heads in their partners' laps.
Yes, Gautam said, she had slapped those who tried to run away when the
police asked for names and addresses. "If they were not doing anything illegal,
why they wanted to run away?" she demanded. "I do not consider that what we did
was wrong."
By the end of the week, as public outrage piled on, Gautam and three
other police officers were suspended, including the city police superintendent,
pending an internal investigation.
In a society where dating is frowned upon, public parks remain among the
only places where couples can avail themselves of intimacy, from talking to
necking and petting with abandon under the arms of a shady tree. Even if it is
in broad daylight in a public park, romance before marriage remains taboo in
small-town India, which is why the spectacle in Gandhi Park turned out to be
such a big deal: to be outed in this way, on national television, is to bring
terrible shame and recrimination on yourself and your family.
So alarming, in fact, was it for Amit Sharma and his girlfriend of two
years that the pair ran away from home hours after the incident. They returned
home more than a day later, only after their parents went to fetch them from a
nearby town where they were hiding and agreed, in principle, to let them marry.
Days later, Sharma, 22 years old and unemployed, described the jarring
episode. The police swooped down on the couples in the park "as though we were
terrorists," grabbed them by their collars and separated the men and women. He
could hear his girlfriend, Anshu, crying and the police yelling at her: "Your
parents send you to college to study! What are you doing here?"
"I pleaded with the police, 'Please let us go,"' he recalled.
Eventually, they were all released. No one was charged with a crime.
That afternoon in Gandhi Park, even a young woman sitting alone was not
spared. The woman, who gave her name only as Priyanka, said she was waiting on
a park bench when the shouting of the police interrupted her thoughts. Getting
up from her bench, Priyanka said she walked in the direction of the commotion
when a police officer - Gautam, as it turned out - pounced on her and accused
her of being a prostitute.
What is more, Priyanka said, the police officer slapped her and called
her a "chamari," a slur based on her caste. (Gautam denied making the remark.)
Priyanka filed a complaint with police, calling it "a black spot" on her
reputation. "They did not ask any questions," she said. "They just started
beating. Now people in my village are reading that newspaper in front of my
father."
The episode sparked a national outcry. The National Human Rights
Commission ordered a police inquiry, and its chief, Justice A.S. Anand,
declared on television: "No civilized state can permit this type of humiliation
to be heaped on its young children."
From the political right and left came condemnation of the police action.
Brinda Karat, the most prominent woman representing a coalition of leftist
parties in government, denounced the police for pouncing on courting couples
while violent rapes go unsolved.
Sushma Swaraj, a legislator from the Hindu nationalist opposition
Bharatiya Janata Party, during a Parliamentary session called it a product of
"a sick mind."
Even so, the reprimands did not stop Hindu radical activists here from
storming Gandhi Park three days after the episode and, taking the law into
their own hands, beating up the small handful of couples who had dared to
return. The following day, Gandhi Park was empty, save for the birds chattering
in the trees.
Among young people in Meerut, the police raid prompted a seasoned
outrage. In interviews on the local college campus a few days after the police
raid, students said they frequently bore the brunt of police harassment if they
were seen with members of the opposite sex. They are threatened with sticks,
ordered to give their names and addresses and released usually only after
paying a bribe.
"Crime is increasing in Meerut day by day and the police are harassing
innocent girls and boys," said Sharma's father, Jagdish Kumar Sharma. "How many
Romeos they can catch? Romeos are on every lane and every street."
Hari Kumar contributed reporting from Meerut for this article.
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