Word of the Ward Meridian 14th Ward January 2002 Cherish friendship in your breast? New is good, but old is best; Make new friends, but keep the old; Those are silver, these are gold. -Joseph Parry Bishopric Message Good vs. Essential We have heard much from the brethren lately about our activities, and how we spend our time. They have instructed us in the difference between GOOD activities and ESSENTIAL activities. What, exactly, is the difference? Very simply put, 1. Essential activities involve covenants, and 2. We will never be released from essential activities. Examples of essential activities include duties of husband and wife, father, and mother, and our Church callings. Examples of good activities may include coaching a soccer, baseball, or basketball team, taking our kids to soccer, baseball, or football practice, being a room mother at our children?s school, doing community service, or possibly even our own church callings. All these and many other activities are truly good and serve a noble purpose. They help build character, strengthen the body and mind and help others. So what can possibly be wrong with these good activities? Nothing, as long as we keep all things in their proper perspective. We run into trouble when the ESSENTIAL activities are neglected and the GOOD activities take a predominant place in our day. When work or recreation comes before family duties, our priorities are upside down. When GOOD things take priority over ESSENTIAL things, we have lost the eternal perspective and are endangering our eternal welfare. The important thing to remember here is to maintain a proper balance between these activities. Both are necessary to maintain life and sanity. We need to play. Recreational activity is vital to our well being. It is not necessary to spell out specific guidelines and recommendations as to what is appropriate and what is not. That is up to the individual, the couple, the family, and the Lord. Let us make sure that, with the beginning of the New Year, we resolve to maintain the proper balance in all our activities. May we place the ESSENTIAL before the GOOD. As we do so, the Lord will bless us so that we can accomplish every needful thing. Bishop Barson High Priests Ring in the valiant men and free, The larger heart, the kindlier hand. Ring out the darkness of the land; Ring in the Christ that is to be. -Alfred Tennyson The first line of Tennyson's words would seem to be a plea to our own potential. We are or can be "the valiant men and free," and the formula he suggests for becoming such is "the larger heart, the kindlier hand." The result of the valiance is the dispelling of "the darkness of the land." The ending line leaves no equivocation concerning the reality of Christ's coming and is a reminder of our need for preparation for such an advent. These lines of poetry are contained within the LDS Hymn ?Ring Out, Wild Bells? (Number 215) and is commonly sung at the beginning of a new year. Almost universally, the New Year prompts the best within us to resolve to step closer to what we know we are intended to be. May we be blessed with an understanding of what resolutions would lead us to greater valiance in the eyes of the ?Christ that surely is to be.? Elders Happy New Year 2002! As we set goals for the year ahead of us, let?s remember the great teachings we have received from our leaders during the past year. Among the physical, educational and financial goals, let us resolve to continue holding family home evening, daily family and personal prayers, and scripture study. Let?s continue serving one another through true friendship and faithful home teaching. May the Lord give us the strength and determination to achieve our righteous desires. The Elder?s Quorum Presidency Relief Society Our membership in the Relief Society is growing monthly; at last count we had 175 sisters enrolled. We are happy for this growth and are anxious to get to know each one of you. To strengthen our sisterhood, the Visiting Teaching program is a vital part of Relief Society. As sisters strive to serve one another and act as representatives of the Savior, in our assignments as Visiting Teachers we can accomplish much good. In Visiting Teaching both the giver and the receiver are blessed and strengthened in their church activity by their caring concern for one another. The Relief Society Presidency will be holding personal interviews with each Visiting Teacher beginning on Sunday afternoon, January 13 and finishing on Sunday, January 20. You will be contacted for the exact time of your interview. Since New Years Day was our assigned HFPE meeting time, we will be sharing the building with the 4th Ward on Tuesday, January 15 at 7 PM. Our ward will meet in the Primary Room and the nursery will be in the regular room. Please come and bring a friend for a very important meeting. Sister Laura Brotherson will be our special guest and will tech us about our personal well being. Start out the new year right and attend this meeting. Don'? forget to mark your calendars for the rest of the year on the first Tuesday of every month. Sister Mary Ellen Smoot, general Relief Society president, said, ?Satan has a powerful tool to use against good people. It is distraction. The new format for Home, Family and Personal Enrichment meeting is designed to help us focus on that which is needful. The choice is ours. As we serve in our families and in our ward families we will come to know that ?one thing is needful? coming unto our Savior with full purpose of heart.? Our focus at HFPE meeting is to share sisterhood, gain knowledge, learn skills, increase testimony, rededicate ourselves to our homes and families, and to give service whenever it is needed. Primary We had a wonderful year in Primary in 2001. It has been a great opportunity to learn more about our prophets. We are excited as well for our them this year of ?The Temple, I?m going there some day.? The theme for January is ?I love to see the temple.? We will miss Lance Holmes as he has turned 12 and goes into Priesthood. We want to welcome some new faces to our Primary board. We are excited to have Emilee Crofts as our new chorister; Lorie Sterr in the nursery; Brice Barson, Teisha McOmber and Maureen O?Leary as teachers. We also want to extend great appreciation to all those who have been released for all the time and dedication they put into the Primary. Thank you very much. We wish everyone in the ward a very wonderful New year. Sunday School My plea to the teachers of the Church is to study, ponder, and pray for guidance in your preparation. Use the scriptures and the approved curriculum materials, teaching with the objective to bless and inspire the lives of those assigned to you. M. Russell Ballard Course of Study for 2002: the Old Testament Young Men To be valiant?is to take the Lord?s side on every issue. Bruce R. McConkie Young Women The Young Women met at the church expecting to go caroling on the 12th of December. Before we left the church, we decided the first song we would sing would be Jingle Bells. It was a really cold night and we started off at the Rich?s home. We rang the doorbell and Brother Rich came to the door. We started singing and then he closed the door. Some of the girls didn?t know Brother Rich and wondered if he was inactive. On are way over to the Stott home, we decide to try a different song, maybe that was the problem. The Stott?s weren?t home so we went on to the Quick? s home. Sister Quick answered the door and as we started to sing, she shouted over us that she just didn?t have time for us tonight. While we were walking to the Cook?s, we started hearing some comments from the girls?about how Sister Quick would never say something like that and they knew something was up. When we knocked on the Cook?s door, one of their daughters answered the door and said that her little brother had just made a really big mess and she needed to go. Now some of the young women were really complaining about how cold it was, and that they got the point, there was no room in the inn. We went on to the Smith?s home and Sister Smith came and locked the door and walked away. We then piled back into the warm cars and headed to the Lewis home where we were going to have hot chocolate and donuts. We went up to one of their garages and walked in. Inside was a stable with a manager and hay. We sat around on the hay and Sister Lewis and her father talked to us about the Savior. They asked the young women to think about their lives and if they make room for the Savior. Let us all think about this as we begin a new year, and let?s make room in our ?inn? for our Savior. We want to express our thanks to all that the Lewis?s did to make this a great night for the young women. We also had a fun etiquette night this month with the Laurels, MiaMaids, Priests and Teachers. President Hanson came and talked to the youth about dating and then Sister Hanson did an incredible job talking to them about proper etiquette. The youth were on their best behavior, maybe because their dates were their parents. We really appreciate all the mothers and fathers who came and supported their kids. We would also like to thank the members of the ward who let us use their china and all those who helped wash it and get everything cleaned up after the activity, and also all those who helped serve. Birthdays for December: Birthdays for January: Stephanie Koyle 12/28 Melanie Dixon /2 Ann Croft 12/31 Shalauna Morgan 1/13 Ambur Davis 1/18 Kara Tolman 1/21 Kami Koyle /23 Nicole Vaughn 1/25 Activities Committee Brother and Sister Sargent are trying to determine if there is sufficient interest in planning a ward campout for next summer. If you are interested, or if you have ideas or suggestions, please be sure to make your opinion known to one of them. Missionaries & Servicemen Elder Matt Shaffer Florida Jacksonville Mission 8651 Bay Pine Road Ste 104 Jacksonville FL 32256 Elder Tim Brown Kurzbauergasse 3 / 4 1020 Wien AUSTRIA Rec. Cox, Brandon K. 2nd RTBN E Co. Plt 2023 MCRD San Diego, CA 92140-5696 Ward Leaders Bishop Neil Barson 362-9541 Counselor Bill Lewis 288-0829 Counselor Scott Lloyd 362-1981 High Priests Group Leader Joel Dixon 362-9228 Elder?s President JulioPineda 562-8090 Ward Mission Leader Michael Brown 362-9116 Relief Society President Marilyn Lewis 288-1581 Young Men?s President Rex Cook 887-9487 Young Women?s President Kathleen Clements 562-1559 Primary President Marie Morgan 888-2510 Sunday School President Shawn Patterson 362-2671