Despite all of this linguistic running in place, it seems to me that someone who responds 'Sure,' to the question 'Do you mind if I sit here?' hears the question as 'May I sit here?' This has the virtue of de-mystifying the response. People seldom answer 'Sure,' when asked 'Is this seat taken?' Robert Paul Department of Infinite Possibility Mutton College ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html