Carrying General Sherman's biography and a styrofoam cup full of water, I selected a table at the cheap Chinese lunch place. There was good light. I settled into Sherman's youth, absently spooning food as I went. Because it's an engrossing tale, I was very slow to notice the charming little fellow standing right beside my table. His eyes did not quite reach rice level. With the regal manner of one who has a right to demand anything of anyone, and apparently curiosity to match, he asked, "Are you eating?" Believing that such people deserve the truth, I said, "Yes, I am." He smiled and walked on. I returned to reading. Within about a paragraph's length, he was back, this time with a soda in his hand and a mother in tow. He scrutinized me carefully. "Are you still eating?" Here I began to wonder if he was implying criticism, but no, his small face and very large eyes showed none. "Yes," I said, "I am still eating." He contemplated this answer for a moment before deciding that it would suffice. His mother followed him down the aisle, like a bridesmaid carrying a train. When I finished lunch, my path to the exit passed close to his table. I stopped to ask, "Are *you* eating?" He was not sure that people of my station should be addressing people of his station so directly, but eventually he responded, "Yes." I pushed my luck, "Is it good?" He thought for a while, "Yes." I addressed his mother, "When I was his age, and out with my parents, I'd talk with strangers." She smiled. What I didn't then tell her is I once asked a woman why she had a face like Popeye. I believe her son yet might. David Ritchie, Portland, Oregon------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html