[lit-ideas] Marcus Aurelius In Love

-- Today I received my copy of Fronto, #1 -- Loeb has 2. I guess I was  moved 
to order _that_ particular title, among the 400 that I still lack, because  I 
had --
 
    (i) overviewed the contents online
    (ii) found interesting secondary bibliography.
 
 
--- I had ordered Marcus Aurelius, "Meditations", but for some reason, the  
bookseller was unable to find the copy he was promoting, so I will have to 
order  that again in the future.
 
This online site showed that this Fronto contained correspondence BY Marcus  
Aurelius. I was able to read the stuff -- indeed letters -- in a plain Latin I 
 was able to follow.
 
Then I found through amazon.com that there's this book, "Marcus Aurelius In  
Love", which I don't think I will order in the near future, unless  
second-hand.
 
So, who was Marcus Aurelius -- and what are the achievements of his emperor  
years? -- and who was in love with?

He was in love with a _man_ (or male,  as the affair started when the male 
was pretty young). No photographs of the  male survive (of busts, I mean). 
Which 
is a pity, as I believe _eros_ excites  through kalos, first and foremost. In 
this case, it's hardly through the male's  character as he seemed to bit a 
bit on the dull boring side. He was Aurelius's  teacher, and yes, his name was 
Fronto.
 
Aurelius was _really_ *obsessed* with the male, and kept sending his  
epistulae, which must have been a pain in the neck for the receiver, and for  
everyone involved in the proceedings -- there were no special delivery then but 
 via 
_slaves_ and scribes.
 
The letter by Marcus Aurelius are boring in that, the typical goes:
 
        Hi darling master, the greatest  of them all,
            I love  you, and I love myself because I love you.
            My love  cannot be greatest, and again, let me
            tell you  how much I love you.
            Thinking  of you, I love you more, and by 
            knowing  that you know how much I love you,
 
                                         I love you,
 
                                                   X X X X X X X 
 
                                     Your darling tutee Marcus
 
------
 
The man at first (Fronto) tried to evade problems. And he constantly refers  
to as the "not in love" (me erastes). He says, "You _are_ beautiful, Marcus, 
--  kalos -- (they wrote each other in Greek although they were both 
'barbarian'  Romans -- and they _knew_ that and called each other, 
affectionately,  
'barbarian' --. "And I can tell you how beautiful you are because I'm not in  
love 
with you. Only a non-lover can say that, and take truthfully". His nickname  
was "Verisimus" so there may be some truth to that.
 
Some other correspondence was even more disappointing -- and in "Roman": 
 
"Dear Marcus,
         Thanks for your  letter.
         Today, I have been seized,  with a most
         severe pain in the  neck.
         Also, pain in my left  foot.
         Sorry for my mood.
                                          Fronto
 
"cervicum dolore gravissimo correptus sum; quoque de pede dolor". Another  
letter,
 
      Dear Marcus,
              The pains in my neck are not easier. But 
             my  mind was set at rest as soon as I knew
              that you had been able to take a bath."
                                     Vale,
                                                   Fronto.
 
dolores quidem cervicum nihil remiserunt, sed animo bene buit quom te  
baleneo cognovi.
 
        Dear Marcus,
                   I have been seized with very severe pain
                   in the groin. All the pain from the back
                   and the loins have concentrated itself
                   there. 
                                  Vale,
 
Gravissimo dolore inguinis sum arreptus, quo omnis dolor a torse et lumbis  
incubuit. Vale."
 
           Dear  Marcus,
                  I have now been seized with very severe pains again
                  now in the other side of the groin.
 
"Ego gravissime arreputs sum iterum ab altero inguine."
 
           Dear  Marcus,
 
                      I have had such a cholearic attack
            that I  lost my voice, gasped and struggled for 
            breath;  finally my circulation failed."
 
 
            Dear  Marcus,
 
             "I  am laid up with pain in the sole of my foot."
 
"Plantae dolore impedior."
 
              Dear Macus,
                     This is the third day that I have been
              troubled all night long with griping in the
            stomach  and diarrhoea. Last night indeed
            I  suffered so much that I have not been able
            to go  out. The doctors recommend a bath.
 
"Tertius est dies, quod per noctem morsus ventris cum profluvio patior. Hac  
vero necte ita sum vexatus, uti prodier non potuerim. Medici suadent balneo  
uti."
 
              Dear Marcus,
               Thank you for your letter.
              These  last days, I've had a 
               wretched sore throat which also
              has made me feverish all night.
             My  knee also pains me quite a 
              bit.

"Fauces miseras habeo, unde etiam valui per noctem. In genu dolor  non est 
modicus."
 
Etc. I suppose this is high literature, but indeed! I praise Loeb for the  
publication and it *is* a nice addition to the Swimming Pool Library, and I  
guess I'll try to read more into these two men and am especially interested in  
the campaigns of Marcus Aurelius. However, he seems to have been quite a furry  
little cat. Not only does he complain of diorrhea too but goes on to expand 
on  the infirmities of his sister and mother -- Once, he was almost beaten by a 
 scorpion:
 
     Dear Teacher,
                 Thank the Gods we seeem to have
        some hopes for reovery. The  diarrhoea is 
       stopped, the feverish attacks got rid  of;
       but the emaciation is extreme, and  there
       is still some cough."
 
Alvi fluxus contitit, febriculae depulsae; macies tamen pervenuis, et  
tussicula nonnihil restat.
 
       Dear Teacher,
           Sorry to hear  of your illnesses. We
       are not any better at home.
           This is how I  have passed the last
      few days.:

My sister was seized suddenly  with such
       pain in the privy parts, that it was 
       dreadful to see her.
 
"Soror dolore muliebrium partium ita correpta est repente, ut faciem  
horrendam viderim."
 
        Moreover, my mother, in the  flurry of the
        moment, inadvertently ran her  side against
        a corner of the wall, causing us  as well
        as herself great pain by the  accident.
 
"Mater autem mea in ea trepidatione imprudens angulo parietis costam  
inflixit."
 
        As for myself, when I went to  lie down
        I came upon a scorpion in my  bed;
        however I was able to kill it  before
        lying down upon it."
 
"Ipse quom cubitum irem, scorpionen in lecto offendi: occupavi tamen eum  
occidere priusquam accumberem.
 
Cheers,
 
J. L.  Speranza, Esq. 
The Swimming Pool Library

St. Michael Hall,
Calle  58, No. 611,
La Plata B1900 BPY
Buenos Aires,  Argentina.




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